The Fairytale Lifestyles

Hello lovelies,  Today we are going to explore the value of appreciation. What is the worth of appreciation?  Appreciation is a word everyone understands. It's something that has been taught to us while we were children, be it at home, in social settings, and even in religious gatherings. Appreciating and being appreciated goes a long way in maintaining a relationship of any kind. In an official setting, appreciating your staff for a job well done helps them put in their best in every task they are assigned and vice versa. In school, appreciating your students helps not only to build their confidence but also to encourage active participation and their eagerness to learn. As a teacher, being appreciated by parents or the school management gives the teacher the desire to put in even their best.  Whatever the dynamic, appreciation plays a crucial role in ensuring a healthy and beneficial relationship and should be something we take seriously. Appreciation doesn't necessaril...

Hello lovelies,  How has it been? Today will be a quick one. It's on how we communicate.  I know I wrote about practical steps for effective communication; however, I would love to center this one on how we communicate during disagreement.  One thing we should note is that words are very potent and powerful. God created the world with words. Leaders gain followers through words. Politicians gather supporters and likely win elections based on their use of words. Teachers form young minds using words. The power of words is endless. Almost every good or bad thing happen as a result of words used. It means you can make or break your relationship with words. The good news is that, no matter how bad a situation is, good spoken words can be effective in bringing about positive change in almost all situations.  Now bringing it to relationships, how do you use your words? Are you the kind that is quick to point out fault but slow to give praise? There's no need to claim being...

 Hello lovelies, Today we will be reviewing how we communicate with our respective partners.  Communication is simply the exchange of information and often involves two or more people. There's the intrapersonal communication—where one talks to oneself, but that's not what we will be focusing on. However, we will explore the intra-communication a bit and how it aids effective communication.  How do you communicate with your partner? It is often said, and I paraphrase, that communication is deemed successful when the response from the other person aligns with what you are trying to communicate. So this means that if you tell your partner something or discuss something with them, especially something you wish to see changes in respect to your relationship but you're not getting the expected result, it can be that you have not communicated effectively.  See, communication is an art, and you need to learn how to communicate in a way that will bring you the expected result...

It is often said that forgiveness is essential for healthy relationships, and that is on period! There's no relationship without forgiveness. When it comes to the fairytale lifestyle, forgiveness is a must.  I know it is hard for many, but one thing I have learned about forgiveness is that the more you practice it, the easier it becomes to forgive. There's no benefit to holding on to grudges. So why punish yourself? Life is too short to hold on to things that make you sad, angry, and bitter. Forgiveness sets us free. It lifts an invisible load off our shoulders. That is, perhaps, the most powerful benefit of forgiveness. This brings to mind a saying that love prospers when a fault is forgiven, but dwelling on it separates close friends.  You have to be intentional with forgiveness. Tell yourself that you would forgive everyone that wronged you immediately. You cannot enjoy your relationship if you don't learn to forgive your partner. I mean wholeheartedly, as in not bringin...

  Hello Everyone.  As you are all aware, this is a fairytale lifestyle. I came up with this title because it reminds me of the positivity and possibilities that we have as children before experiences colored the lenses of our views of life.  Everyone has an idea what a fairytale is, even if some haven't seen the Cinderella classic or movies and storybooks that end with happily ever after. The truth remains that life is a bed of roses, and fairytales are a reality.  This blog will explore the modern woman's marital and relationship journey and how she can balance the homefront, career, and social life and still get the fairytale life.  It is doable. Don't worry; there won't be a long list of dos and don'ts. Let's step boldly into a world where empowerment and fairytales intertwine! Discover modern relationship insights with me on this incredible journey. Together, we can create our own love story filled with wisdom and strength!  Are you ready to transform y...